We just need more love to flow....
Published on December 1, 2007 By basj In Community
Something nice appear in email today, I thought would be nice to share,

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Two Choices

What would you do?....you make the choice. Don't look for a punch line, there isn't one. Read it anyway. My question is: Would you have made the same choice?

At a fund raising dinner for a school that serves learning-disabled children, the father of one of the students delivered a speech that would never be forgotten by all who attended. After extolling the school and its dedicated staff, he offered a question: 'When not interfered with by outside influences, everything nature does is done with perfection. Yet my son, Shay, cannot learn things as other children do. He cannot understand things as other children do. Where is the natural order of things in my son?'

The audience was stilled by the query.

The father continued. 'I believe, that when a child like Shay, physically and mentally handicapped comes into the world, an opportunity to realize true human nature presents itself, and it comes in the way other people treat that child.'

Then he told the following story:

Shay and his father had walked past a park where some boys Shay knew were playing baseball. Shay asked, 'Do you think they'll let me play?' Shay's father knew that most of the boys would not want someone like Shay on their team, but the father also understood that if his son were allowed to play, it would give him a much-needed sense of belonging and some confidence to be accepted by others in spite of his handicaps.

Shay's father approached one of the boys on the field and asked (not expecting much) if Shay could play. The boy looked around for guidance and said, 'We're losing by six runs and the game is in the eighth inning. I guess he can be on our team and we'll try to put him in to bat in the ninth inning.'

Shay struggled over to the team's bench and, with a broad smile, put on a team shirt. His Father watched with a small tear in his eye and warmth in his heart. The boys saw the father's joy at his son being accepted. In the bottom of the eighth inning, Shay's team scored a few runs but was still behind by three. In the top of the ninth inning, Shay put on a glove and played in the right field. Even though no hits came his way, he was obviously ecstatic just to be in the game and on the field, grinning from ear to ear as his father waved to him from the stands. In the bottom of the ninth inning, Shay's team scored again. Now, with two outs and the bases loaded, the potential winning run was on base and Shay was scheduled to be next at bat.

At this juncture, do they let Shay bat and give away their chance to win the game? Surprisingly, Shay was given the bat. Everyone knew that a hit was all but impossible because Shay didn't even know how to hold the bat properly, much less connect with the ball.

However, as Shay stepped up to the plate, the pitcher, recognizing that the other team was putting winning aside for this moment in Shay's life, moved in a few steps to lob the ball in softly so Shay could at least make contact. The first pitch came and Shay swung clumsily and missed. The pitcher again took a few steps forward to toss the ball softly towards Shay. As the pitch came in, Shay swung at the ball and hit a slow ground ball right back to the pitcher.

The game would now be over. The pitcher picked up the soft grounder and could have easily thrown the ball to the first baseman. Shay would have been out and that would have been the end of the game.

Instead, the pitcher threw the ball right over the first baseman's head, out of reach of all team mates. Everyone from the stands and both teams started yelling, 'Shay, run to first! Run to first!' Never in his life had Shay ever run that far, but he made it to first base. He scampered down the baseline, wide-eyed and startled.

Everyone yelled, 'Run to second, run to second!' Catching his breath, Shay awkwardly ran towards second, gleaming and struggling to make it to the base. By the time Shay rounded towards second base, the right fielder had the ball ... the smallest guy on their team who now had his first chance to be the hero for his team. He could have thrown the ball to the second-baseman for the tag, but he understood the pitcher's intentions so he, too, intentionally threw the ball high and far over the third-baseman's head. Shay ran toward third base deliriously as the runners ahead of him circled the bases toward home.

All were screaming, 'Shay, Shay, Shay, all the Way Shay'

Shay reached third base because the opposing shortstop ran to help him by turning him in the direction of third base, and shouted, 'Run to third! Shay, run to third!'

As Shay rounded third, the boys from both teams, and the spectators, were on their feet screaming, 'Shay, run home! Run home!' Shay ran to home, stepped on the plate, and was cheered as the hero who hit the grand slam and won the game for his team.

'That day', said the father softly with tears now rolling down his face, 'the boys from both teams helped bring a piece of true love and humanity into this world'.

Shay didn't make it to another summer. He died that winter, having never forgotten being the hero and making his father so happy, and coming home and seeing his Mother tearfully embrace her little hero of the day!

AND NOW A LITTLE FOOTNOTE TO THIS STORY: We all send thousands of jokes through the e-mail without a second thought, but when it comes to sending messages about life choices, people hesitate. The crude, vulgar, and often obscene pass freely through cyberspace, but public discussion about decency is too often suppressed in our schools and workplaces.

If you're thinking about forwarding this message, chances are that you're probably sorting out the people in your address book who aren't the 'appropriate' ones to receive this type of message. Well, the person who sent you this believes that we all can make a difference. We all have thousands of opportunities every single day to help realize the 'natural order of things.' So many seemingly trivial interactions between two people present us with a choice: Do we pass along a little spark of love and humanity or do we pass up those opportunities and leave the world a little bit colder in the process?

A wise man once said every society is judged by how it treats it's least fortunate amongst them.

You now have two choices:
1. Delete
2. Forward
May your day, be a Shay Day

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Comments
on Dec 01, 2007
Not sure if this is true or not but I enjoyed it as I fought back the tears.  To bad people are so happy pissing on other people, killing and stealing.  Oh well, thanks for posting this.
on Dec 01, 2007
Wow.
on Dec 01, 2007
Yes it pulls and tugs on the heart to read this. It is sad that most of us will spend so much time doing things that don't really mean alot at the end of the day. Like WOM expressed, don't really know if this story is true or not, the point that it makes is one that will be with me for awhile. Thanks for posting.
on Dec 01, 2007
Like WOM expressed, don't really know if this story is true or not, the point that it makes is one that will be with me for awhile.


Me too. I usually archive such stories. Thanks for posting.
on Dec 01, 2007
I can't really tell if the story is true or not, but just something nice to pass along.. touch as much people as possible. Really glad it touches you guys
on Dec 02, 2007
on Dec 02, 2007
Snopes


"This story counsels that"perfection"be one of pity and dismissal of the actual person.And that can't be right.

That changed the spin on the story.

Reading the story the above comment is not the way I would of thought the reaction to him was, something to think about.


on Dec 02, 2007

A wise man once said every society is judged by how it treats it's least fortunate amongst them.

A wiser man knows it's 'its' as the possessive pronoun ....

Were I to receive that in an email...I'd put it where it fitted...unsolicited spam/chain-letter disguised as feel-good anecdote ....

on Dec 02, 2007
Hmm.. I guess different people have different way to look at things....
on Dec 02, 2007
I don't really care if it's true or not, it's a great story. It's unfortunate that in todays society, most people don't care enough to be even a little moved by this kind of story. I guess most people would have the same reaction as Jafo......
Were I to receive that in an email...I'd put it where it fitted...unsolicited spam/chain-letter disguised as feel-good anecdote ....


on Dec 02, 2007
There are a million stories in the naked city.

I agree with Jafo.
on Dec 02, 2007
True or not, whoever wrote it really has a talent. It's beautifully written, and if it's sentiment makes you stop and think for even a moment about the way you treat others, then that can't be a bad thing.

Let it be.......
on Dec 02, 2007
let it be..
let it.. be

let it be..
let it be
on Dec 02, 2007
Maybe it's just me, but that story has been forwarded to me probably 10 times over the years, and every time I have the same reaction to it ~ there's something wonky about it.

The way I read it, it has absolutely nothing to do with Shay, and everything to do with his Dad. I mean, look at where and why his Dad was telling the 'heartwarming' story. Nothing pulls the strings of a wallet faster than the strings that tug at the heart.

'When not interfered with by outside influences, everything nature does is done with perfection. Yet my son, Shay, cannot learn things as other children do. He cannot understand things as other children do. Where is the natural order of things in my son?

It's been a mighty long time since nature wasn't interfered with, and we all know the saying, survival of the fittest. Maybe that story is about something entirely different than what it at first seems to be about?
on Dec 02, 2007
The way I read it, it has absolutely nothing to do with Shay, and everything to do with his Dad.


To me it was all about the kids in those 2 teams and the sacrifice they made. You can argue that it is not really a sacrifice but at that age, it is really a big one.